Don't you hate it when your children's father gets a new girlfriend then he loses all backbone to the fact you're their mother, and can only do what keeps the chick happy. First of all women are so hungry to be in that mans life that she completely steps on the toes of the mother, and of course the father lets her. They then try and leave you out as the mother.
Lets talk mom code for a second, as a woman and as a mother, never try and take the place of the child mother even if he lets you. As a woman you should always make sure the mother is okay with something you're with her child. (I'm talking to these in coming girlfriends)
Some men are so respectful when they come in to a child's life, and do what they can to not step on the fathers toes. Funny how woman do NOT show each other that same respect.
Another add to that, please do not be one of those women that say "no she can't come in my house" this is where I have to quote Tamar Braxtons and say "have several seats" that is that child's mother. She's not there to see you or him she's there for the kid, period. If you can not handle that you may as well end the relationship with that man. Cause if you do any of these things I've said here all, you should just throw away any respect you would have as a woman.
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