What drives a person to the point of being obsessed with another? How does a person allow themselves to what they call, love a person to the point of needing to know their every step, and when the relationship is over still continue to follow them. Love a word that has been broken down into serverial different parts. One type of love being the love you have for your mother or father, another is type of love is the love you feel for a person your attracted to, and the last one I will mention is the love you have for people as a whole, the love your neighbor.
So when does it happen, here is what I believe; we as people have the most powerful weapon on earth, the mind. A major piece of the three parts that make people whole, you mind is the engine that runs the body. The fact that most people has already fallen in love with the idea of being in love or having that special someone, which will make for their relationship to have serious problems. So even though a person can be in a relationship physically for a month but in their mind its been about 5 months. They've already pictured what life would be like with this person, they've pictured children, the house, the wedding, them growing old together, and just life being perfect.
Its time to think in reality, if your in your 20's, THAT'S PROBABLY NOT WHO YOU WILL END UP WITH. So stop save yourself the pain of the whole break up, the I can't live without them crap. Trust me its crap, you both will change several times over before you get to 30. then take it out your mind that you can change someone, you can change no one by yourself and your clothes. You can not turn someone into what you want them to be save the wasted time and effort. But hey what do I know...
